What should I do if a friend of mine's so called girlfriend/supposedly baby mama doesn't want me around him because she thinks I will take him (which I could I just don't want too and thats not me) and mind you she is crazy so he doesn't even want me around because he doesn't know what she might do???
Well first of all you need to shed the attitude of “oh I can take you man”. People tend not to realize that these internal attitudes have a way of creeping out even when we don't mean for them too or don't think they are. So you have probably been around this girl and she's picking up this vibe from you and she is understandably not happy about it at all. Next you are going to have to be the a big person and attempt to make contact with her. Clear communication is the key in any and every type of relationship. Talking with her about this whole situation couldn't hurt but could definitely help and maybe even spawn a new friendship between you too. Make sure to include in your chat with her that you have no intentions on trying to make a move on her boyfriend, and that you just want everything to be chill. As far as the crazy thing goes she can only be so crazy if your friend is dating her, but you don't want to trigger her 'craziness' so be sure to remain respectful and understanding.
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very very true! and if you do choose to contact her like he sed be very mindful of your tone and making sure youre coming off as respectful as possible. keep up the good work yoooeverett
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