It's me or them...

Ok so I lost my virginity to this boy who already had a girlfriend and it was going OK but now the girl may possibly be pregnant. At first he was going leave me but now he's saying he loves me and can't bring himself to leave me. I truly have a lot love for him but I don't know what to do now....

This is quite a complicated situation. The first and only thing I can think of to advise you to do is to make your exit from this situation. Considering that he did take your virginity I know there are a ton of additional feelings and attachments that come with that, like that is really a life long bond. But despite that you really need to consider getting out of that situation. The fact that this other young lady may have a baby with him on the way is reason enough to split. He will need to focus on his responsibilities as a father and there won't be much room at all if any at all to facilitate a healthy and productive relationship with you. Now if the baby wasn't apart of the situation I would still tell you to step back from him to give him room to get himself together if you really loved him. Being a choice can be pretty emotionally charging especially if it doesn't look likely you will be the final choice. Like I said before I know it won't be easy at all but I do think you need to make this split and with as much quickness as you can. He needs to think about him and the consequences of your actions and you need to think about you.