Okay so I have a boyfriend and I really deeply like him and think our relationship could last pretty long. However, there are some issues; sometimes he completely ignores my texts and I feel like he doesn't share with me how he's feeling anymore. So do you have any suggestions on how to get his sensitive side out.
Well first off its really swell that you do actually foresee your relationship lasting a long time. Long lasting relationships can be rewarding but require the time and effort to ensure they run smoothly. The issues you are having are related to the number one aspect of a relationship that can make a break a relationship easily and that aspect is COMMUNICATION. If you read some other posts on here you will see that communication is key. I am sure you can understand that seeing as how your two problems are communication problems. The first step in solving any communication problem is by examining the problem and identifying your role in that problem. You think he ignores your text; well ask yourself is it possible that I send too many texts? Is it possible that he may have a reason not to answer? Does my text REALLY need an answer? If you answered yes to any of those they hey problem solved, fixed your part and the problem may go away. Now if you answered no then now you must take steps to seek a remedy from the other person. The best way to do that is to communicate to this person(via phone call or in person since he may be ignoring your texts) that you feel that they ignore your text. Let him know how you are feeling about him ignoring your texts and ask him to consider not doing. You will find that in situations like these the acts are unintentional and can be quickly remedied once attestation is brought to them. The solution to your second question is similar. Ask your self, Do I ask how he is feeling anymore? Does he tell me but I miss it? If yes than communicate with him that you have an interest in how he is feeling and would greatly appreciate it if he shared with you. The magical solution to any communication problem is to communicate more
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I have a problem thats similar in nature to this. I hurt a man that i love and now he has cut me off completely. I was starting to get over it back when i thought he didnt care about me at all but then my dumb friend left her twitter up on my phone and i saw a status of his that led me to believe that he does still care about the things i did to him and its frustrating because all i wanna do now is make it right but I dont know how. Plus he's leaving in a few days and i probably wont see or speak to him again after that. What would be the best thing to do?
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